Who the fuck am I?

What the fuck am I doing?

Where the fuck am I going?


How the fuck do I fit in?

Can you answer the questions with confidence and clarity?

I come across so many people who can’t answer the first question, so no wonder they don’t know how the fuck they’re supposed to fit in.  More to the point, they don’t recognise the reasons why they don’t fit in and that they don’t have to.

We all have a human need to be loved, valued and acknowledged for who we are, but that gets strangled in a web of worries. We lose sight of who we; our individuality and sense of self because society has us defining ourselves like others, packing us into roles, gender, ages and stages of life. We’re being measured against the masses. We work our bits off to prove our worth, to measure up to what other well meaning people think we should be.  This only takes us further away from who we truly are.  Then w become despondent and disconnected from the Greater Personal Self, the internal GPS that has the ability to guide and keep us all on the track True North.

There’s a wealth of information out there telling us what and how to do shit. It assumes a one size fits all and is very good at sowing seeds of doubt if we don’t measure up. No wonder we feel like misfits – square pegs trying to fit into a round hole.

I was furking around on the net the other day doing some research and came across this quiz on a psychology site. The multi choice answers just didn’t resonate with me. I ended up compromising my true self to fit within the parameters of the choices I was given. No surprise then, when the defining personality type didn’t fit. Yes there were elements of truth in it, but I’m distinctly different from everyone else – as are you.

We do these quizzes to help us establish a sense of self, but they’re too generic. They don’t help us answer the ‘Who the Fuck Am I’ question.  They actually end up creating what I call a ‘Headfuck,’ screwing our minds into thinking we’re not fit for anything.

You can’t answer the ‘how’ question until you know who you are. To do that you need to know the why, the what and the when, which is hard if you don’t know where to start.

That’s where I come in. My Personal Intelligence Programme (PIP) will help you get to the core of what’s important to you, connect you to the intelligence inside yourself, so you can gain the confidence and clarity to navigate your own way through life in a meaningful way.


Testimonials from a client I helped get her shit together ” I didn’t have an expectation going into this, just a hope to somehow sort my shit out and I came out with so much more than that.”

If you’re serious about doing the same for yourself, then click here to check out the range of ways I can help.

Contact me for a free half hour consultation to help you get back on track and lead a life you love. A life that feeds your soul and fills you with oodles of enthusiasm.

Phone:  0064 212437474

Email:  info@philippaross.com

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